Happy Birthday to Sue!

As Wednesday, June 30th rolls around, Sue celebrates her 52nd birthday. There won't be a big party or a huge celebration - but perhaps a lot of reflective thoughts on what a wonderful 52 years it has been for all of us fortunate enough to have Sue in our lives.

Today Mayo Hospice delivered a hospital bed and placed it where Sue had previously requested it. As I gathered up some sheets (I had a difficult time finding them) and made this bed I realized what it was and what I was doing. It made me think of all the times Sue made our beds, always making sure we were taken care of - never complaining once. Yes, she spent 52 years making all our lives better.

I have not been able to get any comments from Sue that will give anyone warm fuzzies or make you laugh. It is a very challenging time for Sue...her days are long and without energy or vision she feels no purpose. I work each time we talk to keep her positive but it grows harder each day. She still has her wits about her and makes us all smile - she is in no pain. However, unfortunately, there is little joy in her days anymore.

Some friends from way back stopped by today and gave her a hug (Becca and Sally - see picture). She sat up and visited for a bit - being the trooper she always is.

I still read her all the cards, emails, blog postings and other kind words we get daily from all of you. It certainly helps makes this trying time much better. Happy Birthday, Susan Maree - you are one of a kind! Her loving husband...Ed

Update from Sue (6-12-10)

Dear friends, family and neighbors - Sue has asked me to update her blog to let everyone know she is doing fine. Most of her days consist of sleeping peacefully at home, a little television and enjoying some great things to eat.

She is not in any pain but has limited energy - so resting seems to be the best thing for her these days. Due to the great deal of time she is resting we have elected to usually take the phone off the hook and keep it quiet in the house. We have had time where we get out and spent some time with the neighbors but most of the time we are in. I am now going into work each morning, coming home and preparing Sue's lunch and working from home in the PM. I could not do this without an outstanding staff back at the office and a supportive board - thank you!

We plan to meet with Mayo Hospice Monday per the referral from Dr. Buckner (Sue's primary). We cannot say enough for the outstanding support we have received from Mayo. The whole group has been super..thank you!

Great things to eat...I say this because we have been amazed at the wonderful food dishes people have dropped off for us. And support - we even had the "kitchen ladies" come over and clean our entire house! I have Sue listen to phone voice messages, read her cards she gets in the mail and share peoples wishes I receive personally each day. You have ALL been simply amazing with your love, prayers and support.

I will keep you up on things. Please feel free to contact me via email at ehruska@rochsports.com if you have any question. God bless! Ed (and Sue)